All of the music for The Church of Union which I have my hand in is this way. As I am writing this, I am just arriving to the shores of my ocean of love for music. God has Asked me to heal very popular songs important to culture, songs which evoke great emotion and deep feeling. The problem with these songs is a misunderstanding in the mind of the artist. The artist usually associates deep emotions and feeling with pain. Every competent artist knows the thing that makes art great is emotion and feeling. Something that not only draws this from themselves, but something others can relate to, something people feel speaks to them.
The problem with music based in pain is that it becomes uncomfortable to listen to after a time, and so we sort of eventually abandon these beautiful works which were almost masterpieces. We store them in a little box in our hearts and forget about them, sometimes returning to them throughout life, only to put them back in the box and move on.